隨著佛教發展的國際化,僅憑少數的出家僧眾在世界弘法已不敷所需,而在家信眾中不乏學養豐富之士,所以佛光會成立檀講師!制度,鼓勵在家居士與出家僧眾一起擔負弘揚佛法的神聖使命。現在讓我來說明檀講師應具備的條件有哪些?
一、正知正見︰
檀講師除了對三寶必須虔誠敬信之外,對佛法尤其要有正知正見的認識。一個人如果缺乏正知正見,就好像一艘沒有掌舵的船,航行在茫茫大海之中,不但不知何去何從,而且有覆舟滅頂之虞。佛教的八正道將正見放在第一,其重要性可見一斑。如果沒有正知正見,一切的佛法都是偏執。何謂正知正見?懂得明因識果是正知正見,了解業報緣起是正知正見,分辨善惡是非是正知正見,明白佛道永恆是正知正見。檀講師能擁有正確的觀念,堅定的信仰,才能帶領大家航向光明美滿的人生,到達解脫安樂的彼岸。
二、信戒定慧︰
信,是我們對佛教要有正確的信心,也就是必須具備四不壞信︰對教主佛陀,我們要有堅定的信念;對佛陀的教法,我們要信受奉行;對教團,要信守不渝;對佛光會,要肯定忠誠;尤其在學佛修行的道路上,不論遇到任何困難挫折,我們都不能改變信心道念。華嚴經云︰信為道元功德母,增長一切諸善根。!記得過去佛光山製作了一個電視節目叫信心門!,頗受社會大眾好評,主要就是因為它的內容能鼓舞大眾對生命的信心與勇氣。因此只要有信心,無論遇到任何異說紛紜,任何邪見顛倒,我們都能勇於克服,堅無不摧。
戒,有五戒、六法戒、八關齋戒、十善戒、菩薩戒……等,所有戒律都能規範我們的身心。經典中常以譬喻來說明戒!的重要性,例如︰戒如良師,能指導我們清淨三業;戒如良軌,能指引正路;戒如城池,能保護我們的法身慧命;戒如水囊,能解除熱惱,讓我們獲得清涼;戒如明燈,能照破無明,找回般若自性……。所以,戒是我們做人的基礎,是一切善法的初基,是法身慧命之所依。因此,我們要嚴守戒律。
除了經典中的戒條以外,像佛光人的工作信條Z給人信心,給人歡喜,給人希望,給人方便!,以及佛光會的宗旨、理念、精神、目標、方向……等等,都能引導我們提升人格,增進品德,大家也應該將其奉若戒律,確實遵循。所以,檀講師對於佛光會的章程、辦法必須多加研讀,以便宣導發揚。
定,不一定指參禪打坐、瞑想入定或誦經念佛、三昧現前,其實,攝心保持正念,清清楚楚知道自己的心思舉止,也是一種定的功用。能夠守定,就可以在日常生活中產生力量,使我們在面對各種境界時,都能以靜制動,掌握勝算,因為有了定力之後,自然智慧澄明,燭照萬法。
慧,意指洞悉真理,明白道理。與世智辯聰不同,所以直譯為般若!。佛教與一般宗教之所以不同,也在於佛教除了慈愍萬物、信仰堅定之外,還特別重視追求智慧,以期斷除煩惱,究竟解脫。大乘菩薩道以般若智慧為上首,經云︰般若為智慧之母。!三世諸佛皆因證得無漏智慧而成無上正等正覺,所以,「慧」在佛教裡占有相當重要的地位。世親菩薩說︰有信無智,增長愚癡。!檀講師負有弘揚佛法的重責大任,必須加倍勤習佛法,增長智慧,才能引導眾生照破無明癡暗,邁向菩提大道。
三、因緣果報︰
在這世間,任何事物都有賴因緣成就,沒有因緣,就沒有結果。好比種子撒在田裡,沒有水分、陽光、空氣、肥料,如何能開花結果?佛教之所以和其他宗教不同,是因為其他宗教都將一切歸之於神所創造,而佛教卻主張一切都是因緣所成,非一人一事所為。所以,佛光會一再強調廣結善緣的重要性。
因緣果報是絲毫不爽的,世界上沒有不勞而獲的成就,也沒有不造而受的惡報,所謂善惡到頭終有報,只爭來早與來遲。!因果報應不僅十分公平,也給人生莫大的希望,如果要社會安和樂利,必須人人都有因果觀念,因為具有因果觀念,自己就是警察、法官,因果就是自己的法律準則。經云︰『己未作,教他作,無有是處。』身為檀講師更要以身作則,明因識果,廣結善緣,才能讓大家心悅誠服,同入佛道。
四、團體觀念︰
俗謂︰團結就是力量。!佛光會是一個和樂清淨的教團,我們的理念是集體創作,並不標榜個人成就。佛教傳到中國二千多年來,只有在隋唐時代鼎盛非凡,主要原因是由於佛教多不發心入世,只想一個人獨善其身,做自了漢,在各行其事的情況下,弘法的力量逐漸分散,即使少數有心人士想要力圖挽救,終因力量薄弱而告失敗,所以我認為佛光會想要做利世度眾的大事業,必得大家團結起來,集中力量。
所謂『獨木不成林』,沙石、水泥等混和起來,才能將房子建好,也唯其如此,沙石、水泥才有存在的意義,所以沒有團體,處處孤掌難鳴,沒有團體,不但難以成就大事,連自我都無法實現。檀講師弘法利生,更必須要有團體觀念,因為唯有透過大我的各種資源,小我的理想才得以發揮;唯有在大我之中克盡厥責,才能充分展現自己的天賦。
五、慈悲和淨︰
一個人寧可沒有智慧,沒有能力,但是不能沒有慈悲,觀世音菩薩於無量劫前早已成佛,號正法明如來,但因悲愍眾生,迴入娑婆,尋聲救苦;文殊菩薩過去是龍種上尊王佛,為七佛之師,諸佛之母,但他志在行菩薩道,利樂眾生。菩薩的種種懿行在在都是實踐悲不住寂滅!的最佳榜樣,可見發菩提心,廣度有情者都是以慈悲!為本的,檀講師有了這個根本,才能發無我心,勇猛精進,說法無畏。
和,是處世最佳良方。世間上有所謂『以和為貴』、『家和萬事興』,在佛教的團體裡所講求的『六和僧團』,除了注重和合無諍之外,更強調清淨無染。經云︰『佛法無量義,一以淨為本。』唯有清淨三業,才能維繫人我之間的良好關係,才能在菩提道上彼此提攜,互相砥礪。檀講師是所有佛光會員的表率,更應該謹守和淨原則,在道業、學業、事業上有所成就。
六、功德清望︰
《勝鬘經》云︰『惡盡曰功,善滿稱德。又德者,得也;修功所得,故名功德。』一個人既然惡已滅盡,善又圓滿,必定悲智雙運,說法圓融,德高望重,人所稱服。所以想做檀講師,必定要有功德清望。
如何能得到功德清望呢?護持三寶,不遺餘力;與人相處,尊重包容;日日行善,去偽存真;喜捨服務,為眾謀福……等,都能使我們積功進德,眾望所歸。
七、權巧方便︰
佛陀為解決眾生的苦惱,敷設八萬四千法門,並依眾生根機,將佛法分為人、天、聲聞、緣覺、菩薩等五乘,各別施教,其目的乃是為了觀機逗教,不捨一人。其後祖師大德們又依佛陀的教義,著書立說,弘法不輟,也是為了要攝化不同根器的眾生。因此,今日佛光會的檀講師,對於古聖先賢至高至善的真理,也必須運用權巧智慧,以契理契機的方式,弘法度眾。《楞嚴經》中說︰『方便有多門,歸源無二路。』佛經裡有時談空說有,有時論相說性,其實有無本是一體,性相亦非二物,此外,佛陀的四攝六度、五戒十善等法門,也是弘法利生的權巧方便,如何運用千差萬別的各種法門,使一切有情同歸真理之門,這是我們佛光會檀講師應努力進取的目標!
八、口才敏捷︰
《維摩經》云︰『佛以一音演說法,眾生隨類各得解。』可見舌燦蓮華、說法三昧的能力,透過語言文字的傳達,才能吸引人注意,進而度化有情。今日的社會也力倡講演、說話的藝術,以求達到人我之間的良好溝通。因此具有博徵旁引、觸類旁通的辯才,不僅能顯示檀講師豐富的佛學造詣,更能隨時隨地弘法佈教。所以,要成為檀講師,必須博覽F經,思惟法義,依教奉行,以充實自己的佛學素養。此外,檀講師若能懂得多種語言,並且富有幽默感,就更能善說無礙,廣受歡迎。總之,想要作一個口才敏捷的檀講師,必須要廣為學習,勤自訓練。
九、態度莊重︰
儀態的高雅代表一個人的品格與內涵,佛教尤重儀態的莊重,所謂的『三千威儀,八萬細行』,是佛陀在因地累劫修行時身心端正所累積的果報。有一首偈語最足以說明佛門對威儀的要求︰
「學佛音聲慢流水 誦經行道雁行遊 合掌當胸如捧水 立身頂上如安油
瞻前顧後輕移步 左右迴旋半展眸 威儀動靜常如此 不愧佛門作禪僧」
姑不論我們應如何講經度眾,具足威儀本身就是一種無言的說法,像舍利弗就是因為震懾於佛陀的弟子馬勝比丘的莊嚴行儀,而帶領眾弟子投皈佛陀座下。語云︰『身教重於言教。』儒家也說『君子不重則不威。』檀講師想要布施法財,必須先培養端莊的態度,穩重的行儀。
十、音調誠懇︰
待人接物,必須付出自己一片真摯的心意,對方才會喜於納受;講經說法也必須音調誠懇,才能引起大眾的共鳴。除此之外,默默行注目禮,也是重視對方的親切表現,而講話的速度保持不急不促,不徐不緩,聲調有高低起伏,委婉曲折,內容鋪排嚴密,高潮迭起等等,都能讓聽眾感同身受,法喜充滿。
十一、五戒具全︰
戒律是佛陀為了調伏弟子身心所制訂的種種規矩,其基本精神在於不侵犯他人,其中,『五戒』是做人最基本的道德標準,因為不殺生,就是對別人的生命不侵犯;不偷盜,就是對別人的財產不侵犯;不邪淫,就是對別人的名節不侵犯;不妄語,就是對別人的名譽不侵犯;不飲酒,就是不吸食迷智的毒品、酒精等,所以是對自己的理智不傷害,進而不會侵犯他人。監獄裡的犯人都是犯了五戒才被判罪坐監。因此持守戒律能免除身心的恐怖憂惱,進而得到自由、平安、喜樂、尊嚴。
凡是佛光會的檀講師必定要做到五戒具全,否則人道有虧,又何能指引他人邁向快樂的人生?
十二、家庭美滿︰
擁有美滿家庭的人,必定身心健全,生活幸福,因此一個美滿的家庭就是人間淨土的雛形。佛光會以創建人間淨土為最終目的,身為本會的檀講師弘揚人間淨土法門,其首要條件當然就是自己要先建立一個幸福美滿的家庭。齊家之道無他,除了以佛法來照顧家庭成員,讓他們得到愛護溫暖之外,最好邀請全家人前來參加佛光會的活動,研習佛光會的課程,讓父母兄弟、夫妻子女都能在同一個佛教信仰之下,成為菩提眷屬。
檀講師應具備十二個條件︰正知正見、信戒定慧、因緣果報、團體觀念、慈悲和淨、功德清望、權巧方便、口才敏捷、態度莊重、音調誠懇、五戒具全、家庭美滿。
檀講師制度的建立有助於提升信眾信仰的層次,在佛教史上是革命性的創舉,對未來佛教的發展相信會有很大的助益。我期許大家能把握難遭難遇的機會,努力當個檀講師,本著佛教慈悲、智慧的特質,發心立願,誓為佛法的弘傳而奉獻心力,讓我們一起攜手共創佛教的新紀元﹗
有句管理學名言:『如果你不能隨著時代的潮流而進步,最後只有被取代的命運』,相對地,佛教要能源遠流長,順應時代所需,才能被廣大社會群眾所接受。創會會長星雲大師基於佛教必須人間化、現代化,才能與廣大信眾結合、發展,提供給信徒更寬廣的空間,因此,本會於一九九三年十月首創檀講師制度,為佛教寫下了不朽的析頁。
大師制定『檀講師』的目的,乃因應現代佛教的需要,結合在家信眾的力量,強化弘法功能,如古代的維摩居士、勝鬘夫人及妙慧童女等;近代的楊仁山居士、李炳南居士及唐君毅、方東美等學者,皆以在家居士之身而在社會各階層中宣說佛法,利益廣大群眾。今日,佛教更需要有一批優秀的檀講師來擔當弘法的重責,不僅有助於提昇信徒的層次,尤其可以擴展弘法的空間,對於推廣人間佛教,將有實質的利益。
由於『檀講師』任重道遠,所以培訓、甄選的工作將嚴謹規制。一位優秀的檀講師必須具備以下條件:
一、皈依三寶,信仰人間佛教,具有正知正見。
二、佛光會員,認同本會宗旨,熱心與人為善。
三、誠信修睦,淨持根本戒法,沒有不良嗜好。
四、信受法要,積極弘法利生,能夠契理契機。
為落實檀講師制度,培訓弘法人才,以擴大人間佛教的弘揚,本會每年都會不定期舉辦『檀講師講習會』及『預備檀講師研習會』,鼓勵在家居士參與弘法佈教的行列,課程安排以佛光會的人間思想、佛光學的精神與理念、檀講師應具備的素養、佈教的要領、演說的技巧、即席講演及座談會等課題,希望檀講師秉承佛光山的宗風,具有正知正見及弘法熱忱,在未來的佈教中,能夠身懷寶藏,辯才無礙,接引更多社會人士學佛聞法。
數年來,全省各地的檀講師產生相當大的影響與力量,2000年本會舉辦千場『檀講師三好巡迴講座』,六十餘位檀講師深入政府機關、學校、民間社團、社區、養老院、育幼院、各地分會及監獄弘法佈教,深受大眾肯定。如林清志、林秀美、洪進國、林利國等檀講師長期在監獄弘法陪受刑人一起學習成長;鍾茂松、孫娟娟、葉惠貞等檀﹝教﹞講師不辭辛勞前往校園講演,讓菩提種子往下紮根;而趙知義檀講師更前往大陸開拓弘法之路,令人感佩。
『人能弘道,非道弘人』,鍾茂松檀教師表示,『今天能夠站在講台,與大眾分享佛法的喜悅,都是佛光會的成就。我將以一顆感恩的心,回饋給社會大眾。』趙翠慧檀講師提到,『只要有人邀請我演講,我都願意承擔,和大眾分享生命的喜悅。』
自設置檀講師以來,目前已遴選出六十餘位深具佛學素養的檀講師,而表現優異,經評鑑合格,可以繼續升任檀教師、檀導師,擁有無限發展的願景,能夠為佛法的弘揚而奉獻心力,讓佛法永住世間,俾益廣大的社會群眾。
Keynote speech given at the
2012 BLIA General Conference
Fo Guang Shan, Taiwan
October 11-14, 2012
English Translation: Ven. Miao Guang
Proofread by: Ven. Miao Hsi, Linda Tsui, & Lou Ortega
Distinguished guests, BLIA members, greetings to you all!
It has been twenty years since Buddha's Light International Association was inaugurated at the Los Angeles Music Center in 1992. As we look back at the past two decades, we see that BLIA members have propagated Humanistic Buddhism across the world, brought light and hope to humanity, served and contributed to society, and also left their own marks in history. I would like to take this opportunity to express my utmost admiration for your dedication.
In today's world, technological and medical advances have prolonged the human lifespan. However, such advances have also led to increasing estrangement and apathy among people. More and more people are feeling the lack of happiness and peace in their lives. Hence, the theme of this year’s General Conference is “Happiness and Peace,” through which I hope all of you can take home the essence of happiness and peace and spread it across the world, apply it to your daily lives, and be free from sorrow, worries, suffering, and trouble. At the same time, may happiness and peace broaden your minds and raise the standard and quality of your lives to higher levels.
Speaking of happiness and peace, what is the purpose of our existence in this world? Is it to find happiness? Or to experience suffering? Of course, most people would say, “Happiness!” In reality, how many people actually enjoy happiness and peace? What we hear and see most often are the wails of grief over the catastrophes of this world. These include natural disasters and man-made calamities such as war, violence, famine, poverty, and various stresses and anxieties experienced in everyday life. Very few people think of life as truly happy.
The average person is committed to becoming famous and rich, but is happiness and peace found within fame and fortune? The answer is not entirely yes. In general, people like to pursue money and love, but can happiness and peace be found within money and love? Again, the answer is a bittersweet yes and no. As for those who pursue freedom and democracy, even if the country is free and democratic, without inner peace and ease, life is still without true happiness and peace. Therefore, it can be said that the happiness and peace that have been sought by people for so long are in fact in the possession of very few.
How do we attain peace and happiness in life? I offer the following four suggestions:
I. Happiness and peace come from detachment and contentment
In this world, some people pursue material happiness and others pursue nature’s tranquility and peace, while some pursue material transcendence and spiritual happiness attained from detachment and contentment. So what type of happiness should we be pursuing? Material life may satisfy our daily needs, but it does not bring sustained happiness; only detachment and contentment allow us to enjoy lasting happiness.
As the saying goes, “a mind without desires makes a character noble.” A person may be without glamorous outfits or sensual enjoyments, but as long as he or she is not greedy for anything, he or she will naturally be noble in character. A person who is detached and without desires does not get jealous or compare himself with others, does not oppose or fight with others, and does not treat people or matters with arrogance and insolence, but follows any conditions with perfect ease. Take the many eminent and virtuous people throughout history, for example. They earned the respect of others not because of their wealth, but because of their moral integrity nurtured through living simple but content lives. They are the true models of living the philosophy of emptiness.
Only by liberating ourselves from the shackles of desire can there be hope in finding true happiness and peace. Yan Hui, a renowned disciple of Confucius, lived “with a bamboo dish of rice, a gourd vessel of drink” in perfect ease and peace. Tao Yuanming of the Jin Dynasty was willing to retreat from the trappings of officialdom to live a secluded life of farming and reading, carefree and content in “plucking chrysanthemums under the eastern fence and serenely gazing at the southern mountains.” Master Xuanzang of the Tang Dynasty “spoke no words of fame and gain; performed no superficial acts” while receiving royal patronage and remained detached from fame and gain to maintain his integrity. Master Hong Yi of recent times used the same towel for decades, and when a dish was too salty, he still consumed it with ease by saying, “Saltiness is a taste; so is blandness.” From the above, we can see that there were many people able to nurture a noble character by being content in poverty.
While most people pursue wealth and fame, they need to know that a beautiful life with a broader vision can be attained by “enjoying” instead of “possessing.” For example, although I do not own the mountains, rivers, lands, flowers, and trees, I can still wander through them in a carefree manner. Is this not happiness? While someone else may own the entire world and I do not, I can still enjoy the cool breezes and the bright moon. I can still care for the world I live in and regard all people as my brothers and sisters. To be able to enjoy the entire universe and the vast emptiness makes my world bigger and broader than owning a town, a city, a country or immeasurable wealth. Hence, life is not about the pursuit of what we can own, because no matter how much we have, we can never satisfy our greed. Enjoy life with a detached mind and happiness and contentment will be found everywhere.
I have always admired the Hakka expression given in response when you ask someone if he has eaten. Generally people would say, “Yes, I have eaten,” or “I am full.” But a Hakka does not respond in this manner, he tells you, “I am content!” This is quite interesting, because this expresses that not only has he eaten, but he is also very satisfied. A simple expression of “I am content!” shows so much ease and confidence. How can one be troubled by poverty? A content heart makes one the wealthiest person in the world.
Detachment and contentment give rise to the strengths of concentration and wisdom. The more detached you are, the more concentrated you can be, and thus, the more you are able to redefine the meaning and value of life. Just as Taiwan’s vegetable vendor Chen Shu-chu is detached from money, allowing her to give generously so that the value of money can be maximized. As such, she has won the respect of everyone.
Detachment and contentment means: there are things we should do, things we should not do in life; there are things that we should desire, things we should not desire in our minds. When we can be content, we will not be enslaved by life and will be able to settle both body and mind to enjoy the wealth and happiness of contentment. Therefore, detachment and contentment are true wealth, and people who understand detachment and contentment will naturally have happiness and peace in life.
II. Happiness and peace come from compassion and tolerance
Compassion is an asset jointly owned by all living beings; it is not exclusive to Buddhism. Only when there is compassion can humanity coexist in mutual prosperity. Upon the founding of BLIA, I composed the BLIA Verse to serve as the motto of life by which BLIA members worldwide should abide. The opening line, “May kindness, compassion, joy and equanimity pervade all Dharma realms,” is an expectation for all of us to open up our minds and emulate Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva’s spirit of great loving-kindness and compassion, bringing joy to all living beings and liberating them from suffering. In other words: to give kindness, compassion, joy and equanimity to all living beings.
Ch’an Master Jindai loved orchids, so he planted many precious orchid species in the temple garden. One day, as he was preparing to leave the temple to attend to certain affairs, he reminded his disciple to take care of the orchids during his absence. Unfortunately, while watering the plants, the disciple accidentally knocked over the shelf and broke the pots. He was full of shame and thought to himself, “I have destroyed my master's beloved orchid plants. Master is going to get so angry when he returns!” Upon Ch'an Master Jindai's return, the disciple acknowledged his mistake and asked his master for forgiveness. To his surprise, instead of scolding him, the Ch’an master comforted him and said, “I planted these orchids to beautify the environment and to offer them to the Buddha. I did not plant orchids so that I could get angry!”
As noted in a Buddhist sutra, “Loving-kindness ends greed; compassion ends anger.” If we can learn from Ch’an Master Jindai’s virtue and reflect upon ourselves by asking, “Did I make friends to get angry at them?” “Did I get married to get angry?” “Did I have children so that I could get angry at them?” “Did I start my career so that I could get angry?” Of course not! A change of perspective can put an end to greed and anger, resolving conflicts.
Compassion is not a demand on others, nor is it a standard by which we judge people. It is a way to discipline ourselves. Compassion does not mean blind tolerance to physical attack or verbal abuse. When justice is threatened or when good people are being slandered or attacked, we should stand up bravely for them. Compassion is not a momentary emotion, but a persistent service for others. Compassion is not just being kind only to our friends and family, nor does it mean we are to expect anything in return. Compassion is not always about praises and encouragement. Sometimes, in the interest of common well-being or to subdue the hard-headed, an angry expression is required to subdue villains. This is actually the greatest and most difficult form of compassion.
There are no enemies in the eyes of compassion. Compassion brings good affinities. Compassion harmonizes self and others, and is one with the universe. As the saying goes, tolerance fosters greatness; with compassion and tolerance, we can naturally unite people and create many supporting conditions. Confucius traveled to different regions to teach and had no fixed home, yet he still had a following of three thousand disciples. The Buddha traveled across India to teach the Dharma, and many of his assemblies were attended by a million people and heavenly beings alongside the regular entourage of 1,250 followers. Different people have different characteristics and needs, hence, it is difficult to please them all. If we can treat others with a kind and tolerant mind, we will certainly develop good affinities broadly and receive the support of many.
However, compassion and tolerance alone are not enough. They need to be supplemented by wisdom. In this world, the meaning of compassion is often distorted, leading to excessive indulgence and turning a blind eye to what is wrong. When applied inappropriately, compassion can become the source of crimes and wrongdoings. For instance, the common practice of freeing live animals actually causes harm to more animal lives. Inappropriate and lavish giving of money only nurture greed and corruption. Therefore, true compassion and tolerance must be supplemented by prajna wisdom to prevent traveling down the wrong path, rendering the initial intentions futile.
Once, a young man had a quarrel with his neighbor over a wall. He wrote to his father, an imperial minister, hoping that he would help him win this wall dispute. Being a reasonable man, the father replied, “A letter sent across ten thousand miles just for a wall, what harm can there be in yielding him three feet of space? The entire length of the Great Wall of China is still intact, yet Emperor Qin (who built it) is no longer around.” These simple words are sufficient to explain the interaction between people as well as the wisdom and art of tolerance.
According to the sutras, “there is a world in a single flower; a buddha in a single leaf.” Within a grain of sand, a piece of rock, a flower or a single leaf, we can see the three thousand great chiliocosms. This means that all matters in nature coexist in mutual prosperity. The same applies to people. Differences in character, thinking, and belief need to be tolerated. The different religions, races, and skin colors among nations require even more tolerance.
Looking at the conflicts in this world, they are usually caused by intolerance between different nations, cultures, races, and religions. Poverty gaps and social stratification are the causes of various conflicts, a problem faced by humanity as a whole. If we wish to be free from these dilemmas, compassion and tolerance are the only solution. Only compassion and tolerance can awaken people’s morals and conscience for society to flourish and improve. Only compassion and tolerance can help to resolve conflicts, prevent wars; only compassion can enhance and sustain world peace.
It is my hope that from today forward, all BLIA members can spread the spirit of compassion and tolerance from self to their family, society, and to the entire world and humanity. Only when the world is filled with compassion and tolerance, can we have lasting happiness and peace.
III. Happiness and peace come from letting go and picking up with perfect ease
Very often, we hear people complaining about the stresses and anxieties of life, and relationships that become too much to bear. Exactly what is causing this lack of peace for the body and mind?
When we feel too much pressure in this world, it is usually due to our lack of willingness to let go. For example, when we were young, we were most likely caring too much about who our parents loved more. In school, we compared grades with our classmates. As adults, we worry about whether or not our friends will look down upon us. In running a business, we calculate profit and loss daily. When we are sick, we worry about suffering and death. When we are old, we worry that there will be no one to take care of us.
Unable to let go, the human mind is constantly worried about all kinds of interpersonal problems, troubled by disputes over right and wrong, and plagued by all types of comparisons. Once, a Brahmin brought two vases to see the Buddha. Upon seeing him, the Buddha said, “Let go!” and the Brahmin put down one of the vases. Again, the Buddha said, “Let go!” and he put down the other vase. However, the Buddha continued to say, “Let go!” Confused, the Brahmin said, “I have already put down everything that I was holding, what else would you like me to let go of?” The Buddha replied, “What I am telling you to let go of is not the vases, but of unwholesome thoughts and emotions such as your arrogance, pride, anger, jealously, and hatred.”
I often use the suitcase as a metaphor for life: we pick it up when we need to, and we let go of it when it is time to do so. When we pick up something, we should be able to shoulder the responsibility with courage, with the resolve and sense of mission in serving. When it is time to let go, we should also follow conditions and let go in a calm and composed manner. The ability to let go makes it easy to pick up again. When you are willing to take a step forward, there will be hope for the future.
There was once a puppy running around in circles chasing after its own tail. An older dog saw this and asked, “What are you doing?” The puppy replied, “Someone said that a dog’s happiness is on its tail, so I am chasing after my happiness.” The dog then said, “You can never find happiness by chasing after your own tail. All you need to do is walk forward with your chin up, and happiness will follow you naturally.”
In picking up, we are picking up right mindfulness, right actions, right speech, right thought, compassion, morality, good conditions, and diligence. In letting go, we should have the flexibility to be big or to be small, to give or to take, to have or not to have, and to stay high or to lie low.
We should let go of our greed for fame and gain as well as the attachment to troubles and defilements. We should even let go of the delusive thought of having to let go of something. Just as the Sixth Patriarch Huineng indicated, “Inherently, there is no thing, where can it attract dust?” this is true letting go. As the saying goes, “With a troubled mind, even heaven and earth become small; with a mind at ease, just a bed can be big and broad.” Once we let go of our attachments, we will be so carefree and at ease!
Picking up and letting go are two sides of the same coin; they are equally important. To pick up does not mean to fight for something; it is a resolve, a form of tolerance, and wisdom. To let go does not mean to ride on a loose rein and indulge oneself; it is the bodhisattva spirit of giving, only making contributions and not expecting anything in return.
Throughout history, many sages and eminent people were respected because they placed the wellbeing of others before their own and never thought of personal gains, even sacrificing their lives. Wen Tianxiang of the Song Dynasty was captured by the Yuan army during a resistance war. The enemies lured him with the position of a prime minister, but he remained unmoved and wrote the “Song of Integrity” in jail to state his will, thus, leaving a good reputation in history. Confucius expressed, “Sacrifice one’s life to preserve one’s virtue,” and Mencius said, “Give life for righteousness.” Guan Yunchang exhibited a “righteousness soaring high into the clouds” and nourished “a vast, flowing nature,” while Fan Zhongyan stated, “Bear hardship and bitterness before others; enjoy comfort and happiness after others.” These are all paradigms that show by letting go of the smaller self, a greater self is accomplished.
Furthermore, there was Sakyamuni Buddha, the founder of Buddhism, who relinquished the palace life of a prince for treading on the path of spiritual cultivation. Eventually, he attained enlightenment and spent his life spreading his teachings across India to help all beings to be liberated from suffering and attain joy. Knowing to let go allows us a much bigger world; being brave to pick up permits our short and limited life to be more at ease. Because we learn to give, naturally, happiness and peace will follow us.
IV. Happiness and peace come from altruism and selflessness
No man is an island. We all must rely on various causes and conditions to survive. In other words, the life of a person is closely tied to all walks of society. However, the greatest flaw of humanity comes from selfishness and attachment. For example, people usually give with expectations of reciprocation; the more they give, the more they expect to receive in return. When their expectations are not met, they become troubled. That is why Buddhism advocates the sublimation of moral character through compassion and the purification of our worldly sentiments with rationality.
As the Buddhist saying goes, “Complain not of a temple’s bland tea and food, for the sentiment of a monastic is far less strong than that of a worldly person.” Without selfishness and attachment, what appears to be heartless actually embodies boundless compassion and wisdom. Only within simplicity can the greatest truth be found; only within the most ordinary can a longstanding path be found.
Zi Xia once asked Confucius, “What are the ‘Three Impartialities?’” Confucius said, “Heaven covers all without partiality; earth sustains and contains all without partiality; the sun and moon shine on all without partiality.” This means that because heaven and earth are impartial, they can be large; because the sun and moon are impartial, their light can shine in every direction. If we wish to achieve major accomplishments in life, we must be impartial and always strive for the well-being of others and the general public. Then naturally, we will be supported by the right conditions to succeed. People who only think for themselves will not only lack the affinity and support of others, but will also encounter difficulties in accomplishing tasks without the strength afforded by teamwork. Being selfless and altruistic expands our hearts and saves us from being self-centered. Wu (nothing or without) does not mean to be without principle, nor does it mean no distinction between right and wrong; rather, wu means to be steady in principle and to have compassion that transcends all.
One day, when Confucius's distinguished disciple, Yan Hui, was out running errands, he saw two men fighting in front of a fabric store. The seller asked the buyer for twenty four dollars, but the buyer shouted, “If it’s three dollars per foot for this fabric, and 3 x 8 = 23, why should I pay you 24?”
Upon hearing this, Yan Hui approached the buyer and said, “My friend, your calculations are wrong. 3 x 8 = 24, that is the amount you should pay.”
Refusing to comply, the buyer angrily pointed at Yan Hui and said, “What gives you the right to speak? Only Confucius is qualified to decide whether 3 x 8 = 23 or 24. Let’s go ask him!”
“Fine! Confucius happens to be my teacher. What are you going to do if he says you are wrong?” asked Yan Hui.
“If I am wrong, I will give you my head. But what if you are wrong?”
“If I am wrong, I will give you this hat that I am wearing on my head.”
The two went to Confucius and explained the dilemma to him. Confucius immediately turned to Yan Hui and said, “Yan Hui, you have lost. 3 x 8 is 23. Give him your hat!” When he heard this, Yan Hui felt like the world had been turned upside down, and he thought, “Can it be that Teacher has lost his mind?” However, since he never disobeyed his teacher, he quietly took off his hat and gave it to the buyer.
Afterwards, the more Yan Hui thought about the incident, the more troubled he became. Finally, he could not help but ask, “My teacher, is 3 x 8 = 23 or 24 after all?”
In response, Confucius asked him, “Tell me, which is more important, someone’s head (life) or someone's hat?”
“Someone life, of course!” replied Yan Hui.
“That is correct. If I said 3 x 8 = 23, a hat would be all that you lose, but if I were to say 3 x 8 = 24, then he would have lost his life!” said Confucius.
In Buddhism, nothing remains fixed and unchangeable. Since rules can be flexible, 3 x 8 can be 24, 23, or even infinity. There is no need to be attached to a fixed answer. This is the wisdom of a sage.
In daily life, each and every thought can be a point for cultivation. If we can face the world with selflessness, altruism, detachment, and no desires, then we will naturally have respect and tolerance for everything. As such, our lives will benefit so much more, and happiness and peace will come naturally.
Since its establishment, BLIA has selflessly and altruistically served society. I hope that when we are serving others, we are also making our lives more meaningful at the same time. With selflessness, we can embody the public; by placing others before ourselves, our minds will be broadened by being selfless. With altruism, we can reduce our attachments; we will think for others, society, and our country. Selflessness and altruism open up our minds and broaden our vision, allowing us to find happiness and peace in life.
To sum up, happiness and peace are what everyone seeks and the vision all humanity strives to attain. A happy outlook in life brings peace in living. It is my hope that all BLIA members and friends from all directions can nurture a character of contentment and detachment, have a mind of compassion and tolerance, learn to pick up and let go with perfect ease, and achieve a character of selflessness and altruism. Let us work together, contribute to the happiness and peace of humanity, and build a “Humanistic Buddhaland” that is filled with happiness and peace here and now.
Last but not least, may your hearts be filled with Dharma joy, and may each and every one of you live a life of happiness and peace.